A Dinner Story… Stronger Than a Thousand Digital Safety Lectures! How to Share 10 Digital Safety Tips with Your Family Without Saying “Don’t Do That”

“Imagine this poor guy… I read his story today!” That’s exactly how you should start if you want to grab the attention of your teenage kids or elderly parents, especially in today’s world full of distractions and technology that keeps them from listening to any long lecture.

Instead of saying “Don’t click,” “Don’t do that,” or reading them a list of 10 tips all at once, try weaving the advice into enjoyable, relaxed, real-life moments.

Education experts agree that learning from a story has a deeper impact than direct instruction, especially for teens and seniors. A story prompts the brain to store the information as an experience rather than a rule, making it more likely to be remembered when they face a similar situation.

For example:

• At the dinner table: Tell them about a young man who lost his account because he clicked on a “contest” link in a message. End with a simple line: I learned never to open a link unless I’m sure of the sender.

• On the way to a picnic: Share a story about a woman who opened an unknown attachment, and her device crashed. Let them figure out the lesson before you add: It’s always best to ignore files when you don’t know the source.

• Over dessert: While the conversation flows, tell them about a man who got a call from the bank and gave away all his banking details. Then smile and quietly add, 'I learned never to share my banking information, even if the caller sounds official.'

Timing is key. Avoid stressful or rushed moments, such as the drive to school, doctor visits, or when someone’s sick. At those times, their minds are busy, and the message won’t stick.

Over time, you’ll be able to pass on 10 essential digital safety tips without making anyone feel like they’re in a boring awareness session:

1. Check links before opening them.

2. Verify the identity of the sender or caller.

3. Use strong, unique passwords.

4. Enable two-factor authentication.

5. Keep devices updated.

6. Be cautious with strangers online.

7. Avoid public Wi-Fi networks.

8. Download apps only from trusted sources.

9. Don’t post personal information publicly.

10. Report suspicious activity immediately.

This way, you’ll plant digital safety habits in their minds without resistance or boredom. The stories will stay with them, surfacing every time they open a message or answer an unexpected call.

Be the smart digital parent, the one who knows how to tell a story, plant a lesson, and leave an unforgettable impact.